I know I have a bunch of letters behind my name, but when I think about what I really do in the world, these words come to mind:

Guide

Encourager

Teacher

Coach

Helper

Healer

Advocate

Therapist

Spiritual Director

For 32 years, I have had a private practice of therapy and coaching.

If you are interested in this kind of work, you can read about my clinical work at Wholistic Therapy and Coaching Center.

I travel to speak, lead retreats, and teach, which you can read about here.

I also teach in the Spiritual Direction certification program at the Lutheran Theological Southern Seminary (LTSS).

I have three published books and several blogs which you can read about here.

Degrees: Master’s of Education in Counseling (M. Ed.), Doctorate in Ministry (D.Min.)

Licenses: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

Certifications & Trainings: Life Coach, PeopleMap Trainer, Spiritual Director, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

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In the office

I specialize in a few things: I love working with couples of all kinds. I also love working with anyone who feels stuck in life and wants to move forward in joy and abundance. I am not afraid of grief and loss, and I feel comfortable holding space for the suffering and pain of others. I am known for my therapeutic work with clergy and seminarians of all denominations. Because I am trained as a systems thinker/therapist, I am always on the look out for how our personal and institutional systems are impacting our lives and choices.

More about my work

On the road

I especially like to talk about forgiveness and hope during times of crisis, about the moment to moment spiritual journey, about relationships, and about peace-making. I believe we are all leaders and love to talk about leadership. I love leading retreats for women about whatever women want to talk or learn about. I teach in the Spiritual Direction program at LTSS on the topics of forgiveness and mental health issues in Spiritual Direction.

More about speaking & teaching

Let me tell you what else brings joy to my life.

Certainly my husband and daughter.

My wide circle of fabulous friends. (It’s a competition: mine are the best!)

My faith. My extended family. My home. My church.

Music. Dancing. Poetry. Cooking. Dark chocolate. Good wine. Making hearth for others. My work. Reading. Writing.

I am one fortunate woman!